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Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Sad

I come to you very heavy hearted today.  I know that since I have gotten home with the kids my posts have been short on words, but overall lighthearted and happy.  That is because that is how we have been around here.  Sure there are moments of stress and irritation and feeling overwhelmed, but overall, life is a joy and things are going great. 

Today I am burdened for the ones I had to leave behind.  The children whose faces cross my mind ever so often.  I've been so busy, and life has been so good, that the majority of my thoughts of the children we met in the orphanages have been happy thoughts.  Good memories of their sweet little faces.  My life, while not perfect, is going well and full of happy kiddos, so way muddy all that up with unhappy thoughts of the children I am unable to bring home?  Seems kind of pointless.  Why cry over something I am powerless to fix?  So I have been better off to put the inevitable fate of those precious children out of my mind.  Until last night.

Last night I was on the internet doing some reading about HIV medications and I stumbled upon THIS link.  The article address the upcoming shortage of HIV meds in Ukraine.  I had heard rumblings of this on the Reeces Rainbow yahoo group, but after JUST being in Ukraine and seeing how consciencious the orphanage was about the kid's thier medications I had a hard time believing that there was about to be a shortage.  The article completely opened my eyes.  If you chose to read it, you might find that the claims of government corruption could not possible be to the extent that the article states.  Unfortunately, I can assure you that it is.  During my time in the Ukraine, I had more than one Ukrainian tell me that their country was better off under the Soviet regime because of the deep corruption that controls every government office now.  It might sound fictional that their are people that can sit back and turn a blind eye while children are dying all around them, but it is true.

After reading the article I was angry.  Furious to be exact.  Livid to think of all the children that will be dying, largely due to evil people.  The epitomy of evil.  But my angry quickly melted into saddness when my thoughts turned from masses of children dying in a preventable way, to the individual faces of the children with HIV that I met, played with, got to know, and fell in love with while I was in Ukraine.  They aren't simply masses of children, they are faces I know.  They have names.  Lori, James, Rafferty, Annabell.  And they have personalities too.  Sweet and playfulRowdy and outgoingHappy and friendlyLoving and tender. 

These children, along with the many other children in these orphanages with HIV, will soon be sick without their medications.  They will go from being healthy normal kiddos, to children dying of AIDS.  No hope.  No health.  No family.  And no one that has ever taught them about Jesus.

While in Ukraine I was broken hearted when I thought of the orphans who age out of the system with no family and no hope for a life or future.  My heavy heartedness goes so far beyond that now.  If this medication shortage continues Lori, James, Rafferty and Annabell will never even get the chance to age out of the system because they will be dead by then.  It is the nature of the virus if left untreated.

All these thoughts and emotions hitting me at once last night felt like too much to bear.  I can't fix the corruption in the government.  The only solution is for Jesus to return.  So that is what I started praying for.  Lord, please come quickly.

Please join me in praying that God will move a mountain and somehow get medicaion to the children and adults who will die without it.  Also, pray that God will provide families for these children who have very little long term hope for a future, even WITH medication.  And pray that I won't go insane thinking about the children that I know and love getting sick.  It was hard enough to say good-bye and walk away from their sweet faces when they were happy and healthy.  My mind can only tip toe around thoughts of them being sick. 

Also, if you would like to read/watch a little more about the fate of the children who live on the streets in Ukraine, then go here.  Warning though: Some of the images and information is very hard to see.  And once your eyes have been opened it is very hard to shut them again and turn away.  Even if at times you want to.

7 comments:

Michelle said...

I can feel your passion about this, and it is heartbreaking. I spent time in a russian orphanage, and those precious faces have never left my mind, even now, 10 years later. I will pray, and God is a God of miracles. It is heartwrenching and overwhelming to think about the suffering of so many children in the world due to the evil and selfishness of so many.
Bless you.

Heidi said...

Sharing this post on my FB wall. Thank you, Jessica. <3

Annette said...

Praying Jessica! I know that Josh said you might as well get 3 at once because it was a once in a lifetime trip. I am at this same road, I would love to adopt, but now is not the time. So I monitor the blog sites of many able to adopt so that I can advocate, share, and donate to bring more of those faces home. I know it is not the same as what you are going through, but at least you know you can help some of them in this manner. Also, have you contacted the companies that make your kiddos meds. Maybe they have a donation program to help such causes. If so I would definitely help campaign to get some donated. Let me know how I can help. P.s. Luke has a bag of Lego guys and some money over here. Andrew found it when he cleaned his room. Andrew has bb camp all next week, but the following week he would really like to get together with Luke again.

MikeM said...

Jessica you are a very generous and compassionate person. You have nothing to feel guilty about you have already done a lot with the three you brought home, you are a wonderful mommy and Josh is a great daddy to all 6 of your little ones. Plus the work you are doing to get Kirk home too. Remember one person can't do it all but if we all do a little then together we make a big difference.

Rachel said...

I think that dealing with leaving so many behind is one of the hardest parts of the adoption journey. My heart still breaks for the kids I met in my kids' birth countries - many who are still there and still waiting. God will show you what to do to help those left behind. He loves them more than we can even imagine!

Have you joined us on the After the Rainbow group yet? There is a page on Yuku that we're all moving to. Please come say hi! If you need help finding it or would just like to talk one-on-one with someone who has "been there" please feel free to email me at rachel@reecesrainbow.org

Blessings,
Rachel Whitmire
Post-Adoption Care Coordinator
Reeces Rainbow Down Syndrome Adoption Ministry
www.reecesrainbow.org

Anonymous said...

A little girl named Lori is on the my family found me page today - I'm hoping that's the Lori you mentioned.

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